Twin Tips & Tricks: Tried, Tested and True Advice from the Trenches

Raising twins is a beautiful blend of chaos, cuddles, and double the milestones but it’s not without its unique challenges. On Playdate you will have heard me mention many a time that I have supported twin families both professionally and personally, and I know that even the smallest insight can make a huge difference.

Whether you’re a parent preparing for two or a nanny stepping into a twin household for the first time, these tried, tested, and true tips can help ease the load and boost the joy.

1. Synchronise the Schedule Early

One of the golden rules of caring for twins is getting them on the same schedule especially when it comes to feeding and sleeping. This doesn’t always happen right away, but with consistency, it's achievable and worth the effort.

2. Double Doesn’t Mean Duplicate

It’s easy to assume that twins will develop the same interests, routines, or behaviours. But the truth is that they’re individuals.

Encourage their separate identities from the beginning. This includes calling them by name rather than “the twins,” acknowledging their differences, and giving them space to grow at their own pace.

3. Be Strategic with Your Gear

You don’t need two of everything. Focus on gear that serves both babies efficiently:

• A double buggy with good manoeuvrability

• A twin feeding cushion

• Stackable highchairs or ones that fold flat

4. Tag-Team the Twin Tasks

Whether you’re solo or have help, creating a rhythm to manage both children without burning out is essential.

For nannies: Establish a plan with your family. For example do bath time together, or you handle feeding while they manage clean up, then swap the next day.

For families: Clearly defined roles and expectations means one less thing to worry about!

5. Celebrate Their Names

It may sound simple, but using each twin’s name goes a long way in building their sense of self. Gently correct others who refer to them only as “the twins.” Identity matters, even in the toddler years.

6. Prepare for the Comments

From “Double trouble!” to “Who's the naughty one", you’ll hear it all. Have a few responses ready, whether you want to be light-hearted or set a respectful boundary, either is perfectly fine.

Want to hear from a twin dad that became a parent during the pandemic? Tune in to Episode 14 of Playdate 

Raising or supporting twins isn’t about perfection, it’s about presence. At Pro Nannies, we believe in giving nannies the tools, grace, and support they need to thrive. Twins will teach you patience, humour, and creativity in ways you never imagined.

Have some tips of your own? Comment below. Let's share the knowledge!